I made a fake myspace profile with a random girls pictures and added my boyfriend as a friend...basically i conversated with him all night until like 5 in the morning.as this other girl. and he told her that he didnt have a girlfriend.... and he gave this fake girl his number so i had a friend call him while i was there... and he got up and took the call in the other room.... so i confornted him about it.. and now im upset about the situation....
my question is what should i do... ? did i over react or was my feelings justified...??? i know people are going to say i got what i asked for but im not trying to hear that.
we are going to sit down and have a conversation about the whole thing like adults...
what should i do...
thank you
My boyfriend and myspace? Sounds like a loser. But fake profiles are a violation of MySpace's terms of service. However, maybe he feels somewhat trapped and just wants the chance to have other friends.
My boyfriend and myspace? You should just dump him.. he's unfaithful. He's obviously not taking the relationship seriously if he's willing to tell some girl he never met before that he doesn't have a girlfriend. Move on, babe.
My boyfriend and myspace? This is simple. Leave him. If you don't then you got what you asked for. You know what he is capable of now. If you stay then don't act all suprised and hurt later down the road when he cheats on you. Good luck.
My boyfriend and myspace? dump him.
he lied to you, and to the fake (you) person you made.
My boyfriend and myspace? Please PLEASE, the word is "converse" not "conversate". There is not such word as "conversate". (It's my BIGGEST pet peeve.)
Your boyfriend is looking for the opportunity to cheat, if he hasn't already. You can forgive him and he'll just do it again and again until you get fed up, or you can dump him now. He's a liar and a cheat.
My boyfriend and myspace? well now u know that hes gona cheat on u at some point...so ifi were u id break up with him!
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My boyfriend and myspace? It sounds like he's not serious about your relationship with him.. I'd leave him on the street and find someone worth giving the time of day to..You didn't get what you asked for, you were just a bit curious and decided to take action.. nothing really wrong with that.
My boyfriend and myspace? Obviously there is no trust in your relationship so I think the best thing for you two to do is to break it off. Since you did catch him in the act, you already know that he was probably planning on hookin up with some other female. If he did it once he'll probably do it again and there is no telling how many females he tried to talk to over myspace.
My boyfriend and myspace? uhm...break up with him...he cant be trusted...ive had to deal with this so many times...ive learned my lesson...you really should do this for every guy you go with...you need to see if you can trust him...
My boyfriend and myspace? well did he give you the impression of cheatig on you? i mean why did you do that in the first place? but my view of this is sit him down and talk to him about it. ask him why and ask him if he says that to girls often. if so then dump him.
My boyfriend and myspace? I would talk to him and after that if you feel that he was really going to go after that girl is she was real then I would say it is over between you and him.
My boyfriend and myspace? You're not over-reacting. I mean he told her that he didn't have a girlfriend. I mean come on. That was a plain slap across your face. I would ask him why he did that and see if his answer is justifiable. But I just can't see how it can be. Go with your heart because he was wrong.
My boyfriend and myspace? So... basically you were showing him that you don't trust him?
That's the real issue, then. Chances are that's been an issue between you from the beginning. That's a hard one to deal with. Good luck with that conversation (the first of several, if it works out!)
My boyfriend and myspace? it sound to me like he dont respect you cuz he told her he didnt have a girlfriend, if he really loved you then he would let everyone know he had you. i know you dont want to hear that cuz its very hurtfull but you need to follow your heart and do what is best for you. good luck!!
My boyfriend and myspace? Some people are going to see this as crazy...but I understand, sometimes you just do what you gotta do. I think you know what to do about him. You know that he isn't serious and that he doesn't care. Why would you want to stay with someone like that? To be hurt in the end? I know how young girls are....you will probably hear him out, give him another chance, and eventually be hurt again. So it's your choice...get out now, or wait until it gets even worse? You can sit and talk to him...he will lie his little heart out. Why go through all of that? Just tell him what you did and tell him that it's sad that you would have to go out of your way to do something like that just to see the truth. Let him go girl!!
My boyfriend and myspace? You should talk to him. And don't leave out the part where you set him up. You both are wrong in this situation. He may or may not be cheating or intending to do so. Don't jump to conclusions. You need to hear it from him. Keep your eyes open in the future, but don't set him up.
My boyfriend and myspace? He's a liar. He lied to the 'other girl' stating he didn't have a girlfriend then lied to you. Dumb him! He's definitely a cheater.
My boyfriend and myspace? You're right about this, you got what you were asking for/deserving.
You should apologize, he should try to explain why he is doing this, whether he is interested in other women and you two should figure out if you want to continue your relationship.
I tell you one thing, most men would run having a jealous girlfriend like that.
My boyfriend and myspace? I would be very angry. What a jerk!
What if you make a very, very attractive MySpace profile for yourself, and start hunting for boys?
My boyfriend and myspace? Girl... myspace and boyfriends don't mix! i know so many couples who have gotten in huge fights over myspace.
If i were you in this situation i would be furious. How dare he say that he doesn't have a girlfriend. Is that what he says to other girls when he goes out with the guys? Why did he feel the need to tell this made up person that he didn't have a girlfriend. What did have to gain from it?
You two definitely need to sit down and talk this out. Tell him how much that hurt you!! And let him know that this makes you question your relationship and makes you wonder what he's out doing when you're not around.
Oh.. and trust me... you are NOT over reacting. I would be just as upset!! I can already tell you that he's going to get mad at you and say that you tricked him. And he'll probably try and make you feel bad for doing that so that he can get out of the situation. But girl.. don't give in! Stand your ground and let him have it! haha! Let him know how you feel. The bottom line is... HE messed up.
Good luck... I hope the two of you can work this out.
My boyfriend and myspace? Even though what your boyfriend did was wrong u were wrong to. You set him up for failure. Why did u even trick him like that because u got what u were looking for. What can you
do? Talk to him and explain to him everything that u did...the reason for it and everything then see where it goes. Remember he is just as guilty as you are. sorry if I'm being a bit harsh but it's the truth.
My boyfriend and myspace? Well, I know you don't want me to say it, but someone's going to say it, so I may as well play the bad guy. You got what you asked for. You went snooping, and you got your answer.
But what you found out isn't exactly what you were hoping to find out. But welcome to the real world. As for what you should do? Tell him he's as good as gone. You've divulged the fact that he will cheat on you when given the chance. Now confront him about the whole ordeal. Tell him what you did. Sure, it was devious, sneaky, and deceptive, but you've confirmed your paranoia, and so, you had every right to put him to the test. And he failed. Miserably. And so you now know that he's not worth the trouble. Leave him behind, and find someone who is. Normally, I try to avoid giving direct advice as to whether one should stay or leave, but this guy is bad news. You've uncovered this yourself! It's only common sense to bail out now before you get hurt....
My boyfriend and myspace? First off, you don't trust him. If you did you'd never have gone through all the trouble of setting him up for your bit of entrapment. Obviously, your suspicion was founded. I would say he is not worth the heartache. Leave him behind. He's going to cheat on you first chance he gets.
My boyfriend and myspace? Ask him why he did it. Make him feel guilty about what he has done. If he says that he wont do it again, wait about a week and do the same thing to see if he kept his promise. If he doesnt tell him that its over and that you thought he was different but that he is just like all the other guys out there.
My boyfriend and myspace? I don't believe in that saying you get what you asked for. Depending on what you and your boyfriend talked about when you were pretending to be someone else based on that you should make your decision about what yall will talk about.because in relationships you and the person you are involved in knows the real situation and by bringing in other people opinions could only destroy a good relationship when the issue was really not that serious. You should be the judge of that.
My boyfriend and myspace? This is a perfect example of what I answered about another question about snooping. And thanks for shareing your experience.
I think you should leave him because he will or may be clever to come up with some excuse that will sound justified and sugar coat it with some kind of way to turn the tables ( like why were you snooping...stuff like that) and you will doubt yourself and then stick around for round two of his cheating behavior until you are so dead inside and years go by until you are tired of being hurt. If you ask me one time is to many for chit like that.
If you care about your well being find a better person and forget about him.
I think you knew this about him anyways but are having a hard time in what to do about him that is why you was searching for some proof. Now that you have the proof, did this change the way you had your suspicions....are you ready to deal with what you already know about him...he is a cheat or a untrusting person...or are you going to let this uncomfortable feeling take over and forget about it and continue to find more proof and keep the game going?
My boyfriend and myspace? There must of been a reason in the first place as to why you would of had this idea to see if he is honest with you.
you tempted your boyfriend, which is wrong, however sometimes people need to reassure themselves when in a serious relationship.
I would be more worried about other things your boyfriend may have done that you dont no about. You and your boyfriend need to be 100% honest with eachother and tell eachother EVERYTHING.
Why did you feel the need to spy on him?
has he done something like this before?
Have YOU done something wrong in the relationship?
You cant have a relationship without trust and honesty.
WebWatchers is a great internet spy software. but be careful, somethings arent meant for others to know about.
My boyfriend and myspace? I am curious, what was your motive in making the fake myspace profile? Just wondering, because that could reveal your motive ;)
I believe your feelings are justified, because your boyfriend denied the existance of your relationship and what he did was not truthful and just to you.
If and when you do sit down and talk to him, some things you might want to ask is why he claimed he didn't have a girlfriend, and what it was that made him want to talk to this other girl, as a "single" guy.
It is clear that, however unfair it may be, you should let go of him because he doesn't seem to regard your relationship as truly important to him and worth keeping.
If he saw your relationship as something valuable and close to his heart, he would not have denied you and shown interest in the other girl.
best of luck in this situation :)
